Thursday, 26 June 2014

Immanuel James: Mubarak Bala & The Danger of Buttoned Lips

Immanuel James: Mubarak Bala & The Danger of Buttoned Lips


Some years ago, a new social culture emerged in Italy: many parents stopped introducing their religious faiths to their children. They chose rather to let them reach the official age of adulthood, so the latter could choose for themselves which faith to identify with, upon objective inquiry and conviction. For such parents, the commotion of truth claims had left them confused rather than convinced, and they did not want to instill error in the innocent teenager. Truth is, many people are not totally convinced about their faiths. Some have questions that have not been properly addressed by their Scriptures, but they stick around either because they have not found a perfect alternative, or because of the social consequences of apostasy.
Yet some parents are totally convinced. Whether that conviction is a result of dispassionate inquiry into their worldviews, or a result of cultural heritage, is a different thing entirely. What is paramount for them, however, is that they have embraced ‘truth’ and, just as they would force medication down the throat of an unwilling, sick child, they must force their faiths on their children. That was exactly what Mubarak Bala’s parents did.
The young man had embraced atheism consequent upon his intellectual persuasion to that effect, and was bold enough to declare same to his devout Muslim parents. His family members would not accept that. They beat him up, injected him with sedatives, and took him to a psychiatric hospital where he is now being ‘treated’ as a mad man. With a phone smuggled into his psychiatric ward at the Amino Kano Teaching Hospital, Kano, he sent messages across to a humanist friend of his, who has since contracted a lawyer to handle the matter. His father and doctors in the hospital insist he had psychological problems before he renounced Islam.
Two days ago, the lawyer was seeking to contract an independent psychiatrist to examine him. Problem is, with this kind of persecution already meted out to him, he would be lucky to come out negative from tests on psychological trauma.
Sometime last year, an adult Christian lady, daughter of a pastor, converted to Islam. When her father failed to bring her back to Christianity, he resorted to violence. She went through myriad persecution from her family, to the point that she had to seek refuge in the palace of an Emir, much to the chagrin of her father who alleged ‘Islamic’ diabolical entrapment.
Meanwhile, Mubarak’s father claimed that he took the action to prevent his son from being mobbed by the people. Sadly, that excuse, unfortunate as it is, protects a legitimate fear. As a society, we seem unaware that education, in its true sense, confers on the individual the privilege for rational skepticism. True education forbids the acceptance of dictated truths, and prepares the mind to ask hard questions about arrogant conventions. The search for meaning, for truth – for intellectual or religious convictions – is best when the individual is allowed to tread his own path with his bare feet, unshoed with traditions and dogma. That adult individual, escorted by ‘objective’ parameters of engagement, will most likely arrive safely in the journey.
When the mind is zipped up against an inquiry for which it is hungry, the lips buttoned against the expression of legitimate thought, there will be consequences. One of such consequences is that the individual becomes a mere captive of mind terrorism, an unwilling practitioner of the faith or ideal imposed. A forced member of any faith is even technically no different from an atheist, since the person involved performs hollow rituals lacking internal support. The baggage of unresolved doubt will never allow anyone to practise an imposed faith creditably. So what is the point in enforcing religious adherence? The better approach would be to counter the differing mind with factual proofs and other rational means of persuasion.
Another consequence of muzzled thought, this time with respect to the silent onlookers who would not condemn the kidnap of the mind, is that such bystanders unconsciously promote an ugly psychology. That mindset that frowns at otherness, one in which terrorists are implicated, is the same one receiving the blessing of our silence. Some may say, “after all he’s an atheist and therefore deserves it.” They forget that these ‘little’ encroachments, these private tyrannies, are the social elements that guarantee ideologies like Boko Haram.
We must all speak out and condemn this young man’s incarceration. We must reach out in love for, in the final analysis, we are still family – members of that clan of intelligent animals called humanity. We must embrace contrary opinion – whether as theists or atheists. We should recognise that religious truths are relative, not absolute, given the imprints of factors like socialisation, geography, social exposure, etc. Let us understand that each person in this pursuit of meaning and truth, is most likely an innocent violator of our own grounds, just as we are, to theirs. If God wanted us to reason alike, He would have made us all look the same.

Wednesday, 25 June 2014

!!!How Nigeria can win, draw or even lose to Argentina and still advance in the World Cup !!!

How Nigeria can win, draw or even lose to Argentina and still advance in the World Cup

How Nigeria can win, draw or even lose to Argentina and still advance in the World Cup

Nigeria need to avoid defeat in their final Group F game against Argentina to guarantee a place in last 16 without depending on results from the other group games. Nigeria have four points from their first two matches and even if they lose in Porto Alegre to Argentina they will still progress to the next round if Iran fail to beat Bosnia.

Nigeria won their first World Cup game in 10 outings against Bosnia and Herzegovina in 16 years. The African Champions looked dismal raising blood pressure in the win against Bosnia. The Super Eagles of Nigeria are very unpredictable. When they play with lower teams, they play as if uninterested and lacking urge. Playing Argentina will up their level of interest in what has become accustomed with the Eagles.

This will be the fourth meeting involving Nigeria and Argentina at a FIFA World Cup; Argentina won the previous three to have taken place. Argentina have been terrible and haven't been at their best like Nigeria. This game of winner takes the group is vital because the winner gets to play either Switzerland, Honduras or Ecuador. Even Argentina will want to avoid France in the last 16.

Naija don't panic! Nigeria can win, draw or even lose to Argentina and still advance in the World Cup

LMAO! What Kind of Funny Deliverance is Going on Here?

What Kind of Funny Deliverance is Going on Here?

Abeg I can't fit laff o. The guy told Pastor to stop the deliverance bcus his friend was calling him. LMAO!

I Sold My Blood To Buy Cocaine ––Pastor Confesses In Lagos

I Sold My Blood To Buy Cocaine ––Pastor Confesses In Lagos

A zonal pastor of Redeemed Christian Church of God, Mr. Victor Edo, said back in the day he had to donate his blood in exchange for money to satisfy his urge for heroin, cocaine and some other hard drugs.
Pastor Victor made the shocking confession on Tuesday, during a visit to Christ Against Drug Abuse Ministry in the Araga, Epe area of Lagos State by officials of the National Drug Enforcement Agency, NDLEA.
He said, “At a point, I started taking them. I was the kingpin of Ikeja Cocaine Triangle that media were writing about sometime in 1987. NDLEA eventually arrested me.
“I sold my blood just to satisfy my urge. My father and my relatives rejected me, but eventually I came to CADAM in 1998. Today I am an ordained pastor.”

The pastor, an alumnus of the CADAM, told Punch correspondent that his 13-year journey as a drug peddler and addict started in 1985 in Lagos when he started dealing in different kinds of illicit drugs.
A woman in the rehabilitation centre, Steven Ufom, said the demise of her husband turned her to a drinker.

“I drank alcohol for nine years. Initially, I was taking it to relieve myself of pains and sorrows caused by the death of my husband because there was nobody to assist me in taking care of my three children. I took different kinds of alcohol to the point of stupor. I was all alone.

"My parents had died; my sons disowned me and ran away from me because of the disgrace I caused them. No matter how dejected you are, don’t make drugs and alcohol your last resort. One can easily get addicted,” Ufom advised.

Another pastor, Olohunleke Mabinuori, said he was once so addicted to drugs that he packed some heroine in his boot when his father took him to London in 1981 in an attempt to stop him from taking had drugs which he started when he was in primary six. Mobinuori added that he left London when he exhausted the heroine.

In her own confession, a 53-year-old nurse, who joined the centre three months ago, said she cooked cocaine and injected it into her body for 31 years. She also said she mixed it with heroine whenever she wanted to smoke, claiming that it was her fiancé that led her into the act.

While expressing his appreciation to the visitors, the coordinator, Dr. Dokun Adedeji, enjoined NDLEA to rise up to the financial challenges facing the centre. He added that 1,500 people had been sensitised to abstain from drug abuse since the centre was established.

NDLEA's Pubic Relations Officer, Mitchel Ofoyeju, appreciated the coordinator of the centre for assisting the agency in the campaign against drug abuse and promised him of the agency's continuous support.

Crazy Video: See What This Man Is Doing With This Fine Babe !!! LOOOL!!

Crazy Video: See What This Man Is Doing With This Fine Babe

I don't know what took this beautiful lady into an uncompleted building with the old man to play rough. Lol!..
CLICK HERE TO SEE THE VIDEO

Naija Babe Caught In Dirty Runs: Her Nudé Photos Leak Online

Naija Babe Caught In Dirty Runs: Her Nudé Photos Leak Online

Young girls are getting desperate and doing many nonsense all because of money these days:
"I do runs to earn a living", this lady is a victim of BBM Runs, she actually sent her pix to an unknown man on bbm and they both chatted for a while, and also start making arrangement on how to meet each other. 
The lady never had the thought that these pictures could be leak made a demand to the guy in question. 
She demanded that since the man like what he saw in her pix he should wire some money into her account for flight ticket and in 24hrs she will be with the man for private business in Abuja.
Unfortunately for her, the guy started sending her private photos to his friends and now the photos have leaked online. See everything below...

Ladies, why not look for something to do rather than selling your body to men cheaply?

Sex & Love: Geraldine Ogwe

 Sex & Love: Geraldine Ogwe


Love is at its best when it flows naturally. Forcing love on someone is frustrating. Like Selena Gomez said, I agree that the lover in me should bring out the lover in you.I am a firm believer of the 50: 50 love. I love you and want you as much as you love and want me. I don’t want to be the one that makes the relationship work. I don’t want you to be the one either. I want us to be the one that makes it work. That is why I am a 50:50 advocate.
Tonia, my friend, has been married for 18 months now to a Gynecologist. She called me on phone and threatened to quit her marriage. I thought she was joking, so I jokingly replied, “if you leave your husband, I will marry him o”. She said, “Fine. But you need to know what you are going into”. I decided to meet her up and then she told me the story I am about to tell.
Tonia is a banker. She is pretty, smart and intelligent. Tonia is a lady that ladies love. When a girl loves a girl that is not her friend, you know she means it. Tonia has that charisma and charm. She is a power dresser. Always neat. Her husband, Mark, is a jovial man. He is fun to be with. He is caring and accommodating. He is the best friend to all his guys. When Tonia and Mark are on the phone with each other, they are always laughing. What I hate about Mark is that he is a chain smoker, but it’s not my call.
I envied their friendship and that is why I was shocked by this story. Mark was introduced to Tonia by his uncle who banks with her bank. Instantly, they bonded. They were almost inseparable. I was at their engagement party. You just had to see the love.
Tonia: Do you know that my husband has not slept with me?
Me: Today or yesterday?
Tonia: Since we got married
Me: (suppressing laughter) You can’t be serious.
Tonia: My husband told me that he is not psychologically ready to have kids. That sleeping with me will result to kids and he won’t have that. I am 30 and I want kids. Time is not on my side. He is 40. Time may be on his side.
She went further to tell me that during their church counseling days, Mark said no sex because the bed should not be defiled. She was happy that her husband was a good Christian and she complied with him. On their wedding night, Mark refused to consummate the marriage. He claimed he was tired from the dancing of the after wedding party. She told me that any time she makes advances at her husband, he comes up with one excuse or the other. Excuses like “I am tired”, “Today’s work was hectic”, “My neck is paining me” and all other petty excuses. She said the annoying part was that he came up with excuses that women naturally give.
Mark degenerated to a terrible night crawler. He is rarely at home. Even when he is not called, he still finds a way to be on call. He would not travel with his wife if the journey would require spending a night. If a friend needed Mark and Tonia needed Mark, Mark would rather be with his friend. My friend moved from her charming self to a nagging wife. There was no laughter again. Phone calls were rare and laced with abuses.
Tonia told me that she has gone back to the church to complain about her husband’s behavior. She has also complained to both parents. They advised them to go for another round of medical check-ups, including the advice of be patient and be prayerful. The more she complains the more distant and verbally abusive her husband becomes.
With her permission, I called Mark. He was angry that the wife told me. I calmed him down and reminded him that I was a part of them right from the beginning. I knew how they started and I also gave the toast at their wedding. Mark told me that he was not sexually attracted to his wife. I asked why. No tangible reason. I asked Tonia if Mark was medically okay. She said yeah. I tried all I could to intervene in the situation. I prayed for them. I even went to their pastor. He said Mark has not given him any tangible reasons. I suspected that Mark may be a cultist, but doctors are not usually given to occultism (I may be wrong). My friend was losing her mind, so I decided to take them out for a drink. I invited them to a nice hotel. When Tonia went to the restroom, Mark told me that he wanted to have sex with me. He stood up to show me his erection. I was highly disappointed and I knew that this was a mental case. I told Tonia what transpired and she had to understand that my intervention had to end.
It’s been four months now and this couple has fallen apart. For what reason exactly – LACK OF SEXUAL ACTIVITY.
Why would a man marry a woman he is not sexually attracted to?
Why would a man not discuss not wanting kids with his wife before the marriage?
Why would a man not want kids?
Is lack of sexual activity enough to make a marriage disintegrate?
Why would a man want to sleep with another woman but not his wife?
Why would one party try to make things work and the other is busy making things not work?
It should take two to tango, not one.
The last time I spoke with Tonia, she told me that Mark and his family members have refused to collect back the bride price. When a meeting for that is fixed, they won’t attend. She is talking to a lawyer now.